First of all, there can be several reasons why parents make comparisons. They want to check the performance. And would be sure after they connect it to the class. It will help them know where the child stands in the overall class. But what should be important is that you see the strengths of your child and motivate him. this will help him to increase his self-confidence. And his self-worth will increase by your motivation. But stress will make him weak and nervous. He may or may not become strong with your pressure. You need to be realistic. Why do parents compare their children to others? You are observing other kids than showing interest in yours. You need to enhance his mental and physical well-being.

Also, you must understand that quality is more important than quantity. If you will encourage your child then he might come out to be a talent that you cannot see now. You should be patient with him. And tolerate some of his underperformance. It will give him hope. But your words, ‘You are good for nothing.’ ‘You stand nowhere in your class.’ ‘See, he performed better than you.’ ‘We wasted money on your school and tuition.’ ‘You are a black spot on our family.’

Furthermore, you should understand the things which your child is good at. For instance, he likes to play tennis. And would spend hours playing than studying. You can encourage him in the sport. But if you try to force him to drop his play. And study for 8-9 hours then it could make him stressed.